Thank you very much, I'm glad for finding here
My Problem solved after 1 mounth

, yes it was jmicron363 problem, special thanks to
Regeneration for flashing my mind.
If some one have this problem :
1-check your DVD-Writer on xp for health or on vista by Nero or something like this
2- Uninstall raid controller(I'm not use raid on my sytem) and other disk controller from device manager
3- download last jmicron controller from:
ftp://driver.jmicron.com.tw/jmb36x/Win2k_xp_Vista
or your motherboard driver web site
4-when you want istall jmicron driver again you have 2 choceb by selecting one of the radio buttoms:
- Install sata raid controller
- Install standard IDE controller
Because my DVD RW is IDE Its very important to select Install standard IDE
after install this driver, device manager will change to show IDE controller.
And now I have burn option on my dvd drive.
