Okay, sorry if this topic has been discussed too much, but I've read too much already, with no decent answers.
I have bought myself a XFX 7800GS Extreme Edition last week. I plug it in my computer (who had run a XFX 6800 Ultra a few months before, so PSU should be good enough).
I install the drivers (after having removed all the old ones). All good, I update to the newest drivers: after reboot, a minute or two later (so when everything is finally fully booted) my CPU goes on 100% and my screens shakes and turns black randomly and comes back etc. Task Manager says it's task manager that runs at 100% ... riiiight!, as if

Shutting down task manager again, doesn't do shit. Okay, back to the drivers on the disk. They run! Whoohow. But Performance? Hell no!!!! I could run HL2 on full graphics very very decent (and those were recommended settings too). Now recommended is everything rather low and on full the performance is way too low.
I have this problem in all games.
What driver should I install or what is the problem?
I have 460 Watt PSU
AGP Aperture size on 256 MB
Fast Write disabled.